If you could have a utopian existence, relationship-wise, and all you had to do was wash dishes 10 minutes a day, would you be able to do it? Would you desire a perfect existence enough to do what was necessary?
Before you think I am being literal, I want to emphasize that I am NOT refering to DISHES. I am metaphorically speaking here.
So, I think that someone who is asked to do something that doesn’t take any money or much effort in a relationship should do it, no questions asked. If someone asks you over and over and you know it’s important to them, and continue to ignore their request, you should not be together.